Monday, December 16, 2024
Kerala

People, Customs, Ceremonies & Rituals


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Puberty rites

The attainment of puberty marked the next important festival in the life of a girl. For the three days after the menstruation begins, the girl had to remain in isolation. She was secluded in an inside chamber. An oil lamp would be lit in the chamber, in front of which a bunch of coconut flowers would be placed inside a bronze vessel filled with water. The belief was that the girl would have as many children as there were tender coconuts on the bunch of flowers. On the third day, the aunts of the girl brought to her a preparation of sweet rice as their present, on her attaining womanhood. After the period of pollution was over, the girl would be taken out to the family pond for a ceremonial bath. Before proceeding for bath the flower bunch in the vessel would be thrown out. During the bath, women sang and swam with the girl. After the bath the velan (the village sorcerer) conducted his rituals with songs invoking prosperity for the girl. On the fifth day, the velan conducted the purification ritual by adorning her with ornaments made of tender coconut leaves and singing songs and was rewarded both in money and in kind.